The most vital component of seduction is physical contact.That being the case i will say touching/physical contact is one of the vital components in any relationship dating.Before you can start kissing and/or sleeping with a girl,lover or your partner, you must first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways.Now the main problem is how to go about the touching/physical contact.Here you will discover some of the best ways to handle physical contacts.
It's almost impossible to successfully pick-up a girl or have a relationship dating experience without first establishing a basic level of physical contact.Most often men just “Go For It” and consequently end up making the girl/partner feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Some men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl/partner off, so they hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact thus consequently sending out a negative signal.So, let’s take a look at some of the basic rules or procedures that guide you through this awkward problem.
1.First impression at the point of meeting;
Most men thing any physical contact in any way when they first meet a girl is an absolute no-no.But that’s simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.This is very OK for the girl because the outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy.Go for it and you will see the difference.
when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further.You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this.Stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
Finally as the conversation runs to a close especially after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again it is very important to carry out what is called the ‘Contact close’.This is done by giving her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.