Are you going through a breakup that you do not really want?You most be wondering how you can get back with your ex.
Are there actually any “get him back secrets” and if so, what are they?
If you are looking for an answer to this question I've got good news and I've got bad news for you.
In this case i guess i will start with the bad news.There are no sectrets techniques to get back with your ex at least as far as I've ever heard.There are no secret potions or love spells or magic tricks that will bring your ex back crawling on his hands and knees just pleading with you to take him back.
And the good news is that you don't need secrets. All you need is an easy to follow, simple step by step “road map” that you can use to reconcile with your ex. If you find a good plan and follow it, even though it may be hard sometimes to stick to, the results that you get might have you believing that it was magical after all!
If you really want to get back with your ex it will be best to stop talking to him even though it sound weird. Constantly contacting him will likely backfire for a few reasons:
1) He won't be able to miss you.
You want him to start to doubt his decision to end the relationship. He needs to miss the times you spent together and the things you did. If you're constantly trying to contact him how can he miss you?
2) If you won't leave him alone you are just becoming an annoyance. That is not how you want him to think of you, is it?
3) Do not change who you are.
You have to avoid trying to fix the relationship and change yourself so he will come back. While it is important for you to understand what qualities you have that might need some work, you should never change who you are just to accommodate someone else.
Move on if you two are not compatible no matter how painful it might be. It's simply not healthy for you to reinvent yourself for every relationship you have plus it is a good way to find yourself in one abusive relationship after another.
And last, but not least, communicate. That doesn't mean cry, nag, beg or threaten. That means to have an adult conversation where you can openly and honestly explain to him how you're feeling. It's also important that you let him tell you how he is feeling too. This isn't the time to get angry or upset over what he tells you. This needs to be a 'safe zone' for both of you to honestly express yourself.
By following most if not all of the list above you will be saving your relationship if it is worth saving.This is an honest and proven ” get him back secrets”way to reconcile with your love.